Humans like to be in their comfort zone. Hang out w the friends they r confortable with, sleep when u r tired, be with the same guy u were with for the last 10 years because he knows u for who u are and is always there for you.
Until you lose them. I never realised how often hair drops and you have to sweep the floor until I moved out on my own. I never realised how much time do I have to spend ironing a weeks clothes until I had to iron them myself. I never had a problem with little affection until I never get them.
Thats how humans are. They take things around them for granted. They get used to the constants in life till they no longer have them.
Humans are lazy creatures. They become lazy in work when they know their job. They know they are not gg to get fired so long as they do the minimum.
They become lazy in the relationship because they know they are already together. They take for granted that the other half will always be there. Tidy the house, clean the fan, wash the clothes, drive to work, buy breakfast, etc.
Then the dates, the sex, the fun, the dressing up, the crazy things they do, ends.
They became staying at home, being a deadfish, doing the same things every weekend; sleep mostly. Tiredness is always the excuse. And one day, the other party will b tired of all these and throw in the towel.
It takes two hands to clap and all everyone needs, is to be appreciated. Make a little effort and all will be happy. Show them you are appreciative, smile and thank them; seeing your love ones happy makes any job worth it, make up to them in little ways, have fun together, set aside one day for date, sex, fun, or anything that makes them happy. takes a little but it means alot.
Have you done what you need to do today to make someone important in your life happy?
